By Molly Snyder Senior Writer Published Mar 24, 2020 at 8:01 PM

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Fear Of Missing Out (FOMO) is a real thing, and something that has been exacerbated by social media. Nothing stings like seeing a Facebook photo of a few of your pals eating brunch, smiling into the camera and having a fantastic time without you. 

But now we're social distancing and although there are some virtual happy hours and coffee dates it seems less likely that we're feeling like we're missing out on much of anything. Or are we still FOMO-filled?

"I kinda am. I see folks with cooperative kids, making ice cream, having pleasant days. Meanwhile, my 7-year-old is following me around whining while I attempt coffee, only stopping to fight with his sister," says Maria Raboin. "Of all the times to forget Bailey’s."

Lisa Malmorowski says although she doesn't have FOMO, she's feeling a new type of envy. 

"I don't have FOMO, I have a wee bit of envy about people that aren't having to work. I realize how privileged I am to have a job were I can work at home, so then I feel guilty. Is there a word for envy + guilt? I'm sure that if I couldn't work I'd be upset about that. Ugh. I'm 100 percent that whiny-ass," says Malmorowski.

Other people, however, actually feel social relief from the distancing. Some people admit to feeling "off the hook" and "enjoying the lack of plans."

"I totally felt FOMO lift from my shoulders day one," says Beth Eaton.

Humans are social creatures and yet many of us have social anxiety, too. How about you, feeling FOMO or no?


Molly Snyder started writing and publishing her work at the age 10, when her community newspaper printed her poem, "The Unicorn.” Since then, she's expanded beyond the subject of mythical creatures and written in many different mediums but, nearest and dearest to her heart, thousands of articles for OnMilwaukee.

Molly is a regular contributor to FOX6 News and numerous radio stations as well as the co-host of "Dandelions: A Podcast For Women.” She's received five Milwaukee Press Club Awards, served as the Pfister Narrator and is the Wisconsin State Fair’s Celebrity Cream Puff Eating Champion of 2019.